You see what you want to see, and honestly she doesnt really care what you assume.
you see an evil man...
i see a good wife standing beside that man.
he has his demons, oh yes! he does.
doesn't stop her from loving her man and chastising him the best way she knows how.
you the observer, watching from a distance cant see progress as much as you'll like.
he is condemed in your sight, and every now and then you wonder why..:s
why a good woman (beauty) would give her heart to a 'BAD,BAD' man (the beast).
love is the strongest force i have known.
it can make you compromise, not necessarily your soul
but it'll make a sane woman look foolish
it'll allow kindness be misinterpreted for stupid.
everyday she watches her mans wall crash
everyday some victory you know nothing of occurs.
you see a wolf, she sees a scared dog getting tamed.
love is all the definitions including;stupid
when you throw stones at him and call him names
she'll stick closer to him.
rather be down with the man of her dreams,
than be up, yet feel lonely in a world full of familiar faces.
love is blind and blind love is dangerous.
her love for her man is not dangerous
he respects her but terrorisies you.lol
he knows a good woman prays each day for his soul.
i know this woman, i love this woman.
i wrote this while trying to figure out why 'BAD BAD' men survive.
and i realised for some, some loved one keeps praying.....
. . . A Word of PRAYER changes EVERYTHING . . . #TYGA
Some major truth here Karen..it has to be love!I have seen this over and over again. nice read as always.
ReplyDeletesad but true. the problem is,
ReplyDeleteshe's lonely eitherways
cuz she has him, but at the same time, doesn't.
nutty lol she actually has him at his best everyday..cos he keeps changing for better, her prayers are being answered bit by bit so to her its progress right?(not so lonely, better than 'cold world')
ReplyDeleteQuite insightful , seen these situations so much, like grains on a cob...
ReplyDeletehowever not the ideal picture.
I believe no woman ( I really mean most women) should (not) be subjected to such emotional burdens, Men should be the ones building up the women in their lives, not the other way round. Reminds me of Amy Winehouse's "Stronger than me" and 1st Peter 3:7's women as the weaker vessel, and also it can be completely avoided, getting yoked to an emotional liability (proverbs 3:5-6).... Relationships are for building one another, not a one way street, and my mum would say, if you are trying to pull someone unkeen up a ladder, you risk being pulled down... I an having a feel that my wires are not really coherent, guess these many sleepless nights are finally catching up with me, but..
Thanks Uduak for directing me here, was a nice read :)
*an *words , pardon me, typed from a mobile #damnautocorrect
ReplyDeleteAm glad you enjoyed it T :)
ReplyDeletetolu nice point of view. thanks for reading and am glad you enjoyed it..uduak im most grateful again :)..
ReplyDeleteNice, tru. Building someone up builds u up too, hence the serving leader. Understanding is developed and love grows. There is no body perfect, but when two join as one they paint a better picture and learn to appreciate others as well.
ReplyDeleteYup, Blackhole its mee! :-)
ReplyDeletedavooo true talk *salute*
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